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Mind, its all about the confusion. i always keep wondering , if could name mind as some thing else. then "Tornado", or "mixer grinder" or any crappy combination of alphabets like "tsfjsgfjs". Some name that u can’t decipher the meaning of it


I mean how much one has to try, how much one has to think, and how much actually falls in place any which ways. and why should one even try so hard when u know it wont go the way you would want it to. Mind, just a pi9ce of gooey mess.


You know what's worse? The preconceived notion. That’s the worse thing of all. Coz that reduces the tiny little bit of scope u have to improve on anything. to convince someone that what they might have assumed you to be , u aren't that way at all, and its the situation put u in that position and made u be this way.



Change is what we humans are scared of. Change is something we are skeptical about. And yet change is what we crave for. but even when we know change is inevitable , why don't we prepare our mind to except it. i know it might take time to get used to the change , but isn't it true that, once we get used to the change it wont remain as a change then...


If we think this way and have some patience to hold on to it. Let the time play its game. I m sure it wouldn't be that frustrating for us and the people around us. Who bear all our tantrums?


I just wish whoever reads this gives it just one try and think about it.


Coz bottom line is "change is inevitable".

-31_1_2011




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rauf said…
Women have more courage to accept changes. They are not afraid, men are. it is very difficult for me to accept any change and not accepting made my life miserable.

i was in Bombay last week Darshana. i did not like what i saw. All the new flyovers took away the charm of Bombay. Perhaps it is good for the traffic. i crossed those flyovers without actually seeing or feeling Bombay.
i did not like the change and huge flyover pillars in the middle of the road killing all the charm.

Vada pau is 7 rupees. thank goodness. i could survive.
hope you are doing fine Darshana.
February 25, 2011 at 6:40 AM
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